Grief is the emotion of the lungs/Gemini and the large/Virgo intestine

1) Grief is the emotion of the lungs and the large intestine, These are organs associated with the metal element in Chinese medicine. But in Astrology lungs are associated with Gemini and the large intestine is associated with Virgo. This is interesting because Mercury rules both Virgo and Gemini. Also, Remember the houses gave birth to a Constellation/Stars, so the 3 house which gave birth to the Gemini constellation deal with ( close relationships with their peers, Communication, transportation) and 6 house ( personal hygiene, job and service, daily routines and responsibilities)

2) The word grief comes from the Latin word gravare, which means to make heavy. Gravare itself comes from the Latin word gravis, which means weighty. So think of grief as a heavy, oppressive sadness. We associate it most often with mourning a loved one's death, but it can follow any kind of loss. Most importantly you have to Over stand that Astrology is about HOW we do things. Now we can conclude since Gemini/Virgo are both ruled by Mercury(communication, intellect, memory, and transportation), Virgo likes to analyze and look at details of things, and Gemini likes to learn about other people's thoughts/Things, which makes them for sociable and then a Virgo. So Greif is taking an experienced that is feminine and you are attempting to LOGICALLY interpret it, which makes your Spirit heavy/dark instead of light physically and metaphysically.

3) When grief is unresolved and becomes chronic, depression and an inability to ‘let go’ of things can arise from this lung energy deficiency. This could eventually interfere with lung function and oxygen circulation. Since our lungs act as a pump to combust energy in our bodies, we must give ourselves space to deal with painful events rather than stifling them.